"As you become more clear about who you really are, you'll be better able to decide what is best for you - the first time around."
Oprah Winfrey
The decisions we make, hopefully come from a place of knowing what's best for us. If you struggle with your identity; you'll find that your decisions and actions are always surrounded by other people's perception, their happiness, their needs and their conditions.
If this is regular for you, it's unfortunate because you may find that you are unhappy often, satisfied momentarily until reality hits again, constantly trying to please people, always living up to others' expectations & standards.....etc.
Knowing who you are eliminates all that.... You make fewer mistakes; and when you do, the guilt isn't so strong.
Determine in your heart from here on out how you will approach life. Before any decision is made, seek counsel, think of yourself, your now, your future, your long term goals, your desires, your place of security, your needs etc; and if your next move is going to add to and benefit you (not just for now) but for the future as well....then by all means, make it!
It's important to have a plan and weigh out all the scenarios; so you aren't spending time later doing damage control.
Growing pains....
