Perspective

Problems can become opportunities when the right people come together - Robert Redford

When you come to a place where you can no longer think about the issue, you don't know how to get out of it, you are basically stuck in the process; it's at that time that you need to back off for a minute, try something different to get your mind of it and then think of a strategy to attack what's before you.

Bottom line is that you need a resolve but  you probably cannot do it on your own; since you have obviously tried over and over again.

You'll find that if you strategically think of ways to dissolve the issue, ideas and people will start coming to mind. 

Sometimes, you need someone else to take a good look at it and give you their perspective. And that, could be the key to your resolution.