Value

“The woman who does not value herself, cannot value anything or anyone.”― Ayn Rand (revised)

What you give out, comes from what you have on the inside. What is on the inside is as a result of the experiences you had from the outside world. 

In all of life's ups and downs that we face, if none of them add value to us, then we certainly can be faced with the dilemma of appreciating anything else around us. Remember, you can only show what you know. 

If this is something that you recognize in your life and you struggle with, the best way to overcome it is to seek God and know His value of you. Know your worth in God and it'll guide you through seeing the goodness in others.