Love

..... and, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.

http://bible.com/1/matt 19.19.kjv

We often see this scripture with the emphasis on doing everything in our power to absolutely love our neighbor as the bible says to..........As we should. :)

But, we can really only love them as we love ourselves first. 

Right?? 

Spend time knowing how much God loves you, embrace and love it....then use it as your reference to extend the same to others.