“Passively listening to gossip or negative talk is implied agreement.“
Scott Hardy (born 1959);
We have all been there....at least once....
Where we spend time talking about someone and how terrible their situation is, and how we cannot believe what's happening to them is really happening, and what's worse is they are letting it happen, and how bad someone else is behaving, and why they are doing this and doing that....
While we say we are praying about it, we really aren't. Nowhere in the conversation do we take control and put a stop to the negative talk. On the contrary, we keep the fuel going.
Not to say that our intentions didn't start off right.... But we get caught up!
If we say "ok, let's stop talking negatively, and let's pray. And if we can't pray right now about this, then please don't include me in the negative talking"
See what that does for the conversation...
May sound extreme but if we are going to get better at this, then we have to get better at it :)
We are growing up ....
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