Character

People without firmness of character love to make up a fate for themselves; that relieves them of the necessity of having their own will and of taking responsibility for themselves - Ivan Turgenev

At some point as adults, we have to take responsibility for everything we put our hands to. It's not fair to blame someone else or life for what's happening. We have a part in every path taken and its not always someone else that made us do it. 

We are full-grown, and are the primary holder of our actions. Things start getting clearer the minute we believe this and be real with ourselves.

Live wisely....